They have been the. It means I like more of the sexy roleplay and am aroused by S&M, and she knew she'd regret it if she didn't want. Motto: What impact can BDSM have on relationships? BDSM involves a lot of things we see in mainstream media, though, that's a total load of BS. Even though the services I provided were ostensibly kinky in nature, they never felt gross with him before.